WHY CANT EVERYONE BE A LITTLE MORE GAY

I've been out since i was 15 years old. It hasn't been the easiest life but I'm definitely glad that I haven't had it harder than I have. I have always been accepted as to being gay, partially because my grandmother is a lesbian, my aunt has dabbled, my mom has also gone that route and my sister is back and forth a lesbian (shes a Pisces and just loves attention from whoever). So being gay hasn't been the biggest ordeal in my life, but I still am a stigma and its not right.  People say I am going to hell just because I am attracted to the same sex, yet I believe in karma. I believe in the golden rule. My life is dedicated to finding herbal cures to disease.  Is that what constitutes going to hell? Trying to be the best person I can be and learn from my mistakes? So if I can die for my country, why can't I marry? I personally don't want to get married. I've grown up around both gay and straight couples, and have seen equal dysfunction, but the option would be nice. Nice to know I am thought of as human as opposed to gods damnation. I think me being attracted to muscles is less offensive and demoralizing than murdering a person or robbing someone or raping someone of their innocence, yet both straights and gays alike do that consistantly. I know we as the people vote on the people, but I as an individual should be able to vote on my individuality.  I know alot of very sweet gay people whose only mission in life is to find their life purpose, find acceptance in a world of hate, heal the wounds society has inflicted upon them and generally want a better life for all. What about that is so wrong? What about that is so evil? What about that makes us a minority? Isn't that what we all want?